I like to say that I am not a kinky person. That my experiences in life were not always as adventurous as they are today. That for the most part I have always been vanilla. However, I have come to realize that it all depends on the person that you are talking to. Sure, I'm …
Tag: sex
doctor
Last week I had my annual physical. I want to share with you a few things that have gone through my mind during my appointment: "hey doc...I should have a full run of STI/STD testing done." She knows that I have an open marriage, so it's not a surprise, but my guess is that most …
choices
Hubby went out last night with one of his regulars (I'm not really sure if she is considered a girlfriend or not). Despite myself considering myself polyamorous, it can still be hard to watch him go out on dates. He comes home from work on time. He showers and makes himself smell good. He'll even …
slut
My hubby decided to go back to see a previous partner. I think I wrote about her in my posting about being diagnosed with HPV. She wasn't the meta who was understanding and willing to work together...no, she was the one who said "since when did Bri have another partner and why wouldn't she use …
wasn’t ready for the memories
Do you ever have those things that immediately transport you to a specific time or place in your life? Songs or smells. Certain phrases or drinks that take you from 2022 to a place of the past. Some of the memories are good and some of them are not so pleasant. Some of them are …
i want more…i think
Some days seem to be easier to deal with than others when it comes to my love life. Being polyamorous, I have the ability to have multiple relationships going at one time. However, lately it seems like I tend to be losing more of them than anything else. Let me explain. Jake and I... we …
cheating
Photo by RODNAE Productions on Pexels.com I personally think that there are more people that have dealt with infidelity in a relationship than we think. It's "easy" to come out with infidelity when you are the one "wronged" and you choose to end the relationship. But what about those of us who have stayed in …
swinger or poly
Swinging: a lifestyle of non-monogamy where sexual relations occur outside the established couple. Swingers tend to refrain from romantic attachments with their outside partners. Polyamory: the practice, state or ability of having more than one sexual loving relationship at the same time, with the full knowledge and consent of all partners involved. (both definitions taken …
degredation
I love when my bff asks me questions. It allows me to focus in on a topic and really figure out what I want to say...and hopefully not get sidetracked while writing it! and because of her wonderfully curious mind...tonight's topic: Degredation. Tonight, she even gave me questions that she has with it. 1) how …
watching
I have an admission. I want to be watched having sex. Shit...I like watching other people have sex. Why? Photo by Erik Mclean on Pexels.com it's eroticGuys are visual creatures...so if they watch, they get turned on. If they get turned on, then I feel desired. It's not something we are "supposed to want". Compersion...I …
Journey to Exist 