why

I've had some amazing conversations with my bff lately... all about how hubby and I are in an open marriage. What does that mean to us? How does it work? What feelings are involved? What happens if...? What boundaries do we have set up? What have we learned? I love my bff. She is amazing …

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john

I've mentioned it before...when something big is going to happen, I can tell...I feel uneasy. The energy is unsettled around me. My most wonderfulest therapist and I are working on processing things... my next goal is to process and let go of John. John was one quarter of our quad relationship. I never thought that …

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makeout

I really want to makeout with someone right now. Yes, it obviously leads to more 99% of the time, but right now it sounds incredible to me. Photo by Loc Dang on Pexels.com I remember the first kiss that I had with my hubby. The sexual tension had been building for years and we had …

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We’re Open

I have been thinking how to write this blog. This is a hard thing to admit because of the amount of judgement that comes with it. The harsh looks. The tears. The scowls. I've seen it all. Polyamory? Swingers?Friends with Benefits?One-night stands?Twosomes?Threesomes?More? Photo by RODNAE Productions on Pexels.com Do I have to try and classify …

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