Ten years ago my husband had an affair. Ten years ago my world shattered under my feet and I feel like I have done nothing but try and put my life back together since that point. I wrote about the whole affair situation in the blog titled "Erin". But what I have to continually remind …
Tag: mistress
do we snuggle now
"she's going to visit her family...do you want to come for the weekend?" It was a dangerous proposition. He was married. I was still the college student who was trying to figure out my life (little did I know at that time that pursuit would be a lifetime journey). His wife was going to be …
it wasn’t a mistake
First, I want to preface that the idea from this blog came from a discussion with my bff. I hadn't thought of things from this perspective until as she was saying something it "clicked" for me. All of a sudden, I get it...and I have her to thank. Now...to be fair, it's one of the …
down in the basement
His wife held parties all the time. All of the "normal" holidays to throw a party with your friends: Memorial Day, 4th of July, Halloween, Christmas, birthdays... but then there were the ones that were a little more random... April Fools Day, Flag Day... really any reason they could find to have people over and …
Mistress
Today's post is a hard one. It’s a story that not many know about me. It’s a story I keep hidden because it comes with lots of judgement. It comes with questions that I’m not ready to answer even decades later. I’m scared to hit “Publish”, but I told myself I was going to be …
Journey to Exist 