I've had some amazing conversations with my bff lately... all about how hubby and I are in an open marriage. What does that mean to us? How does it work? What feelings are involved? What happens if...? What boundaries do we have set up? What have we learned? I love my bff. She is amazing …
Tag: love
john
I've mentioned it before...when something big is going to happen, I can tell...I feel uneasy. The energy is unsettled around me. My most wonderfulest therapist and I are working on processing things... my next goal is to process and let go of John. John was one quarter of our quad relationship. I never thought that …
through my eyes
Do you have anyone in your life that you look at and you see who they really are? Not just the physical side, but you see them? There is something special about seeing a friend for who they really are. My BFF is going through some hard times lately...feeling angry, sad, guilty, and unworthy. But …
the answer shouldn’t be no
So last week I had my therapy appointment…I knew it was going to be a hard session just because I felt blah for lack of a better term. After some conversation, a question series of questions was posed. Do you love yourself? Do you like yourself? Do you remember the last time you felt either …
i want
Apparently by not writing, there could be blog withdrawals happening right now. I definitely don’t want to do that to you. So, therefore, I must write. I have never been good about the idea of asking for what I want. I don’t want to come across as selfish or ungrateful for what I have. I …
margaret
I met Margaret in the summer of 2006…shortly after hubby and I had officially started dating. She was married to his best friend. She was a new kind of friend to me. I don’t know how to explain it, but our friendship was different. We came from two completely different backgrounds – stable versus unstable …
standing or something else
69MissionaryStandingDoggy styleCowgirlReverse CowgirlSpooningand so many many more... In college I was dating this guy... He was known as a little bit of a cocky asshole, but we ended up dating for awhile. Despite his outward cockiness, he was generally nice to me, however, our relationship was based on sex. I loved feeling wanted and he …
labels
I’m not sure why it popped into my head today, but I got thinking about labels. I'm not talking about clothing labels... those are tragic enough for their own blog sometime when I want to be depressed. I'm talking about labels in relationships. Husband. Boyfriend. Girlfriend. Friend with benefits. Partner. Dating. Significant other. and only about …
but it’s not
Do you remember watching all of those Disney movies as a little kid? Where the girl would fall in love with a boy that she barely knew and they'd get married and live happily ever after? What about all the things that masquerade as love? The things that start as "sweet" and move into something …
bff
How many best friends have you had in your life? I’m not going to lie…I’ve Had multiple. As I think back…elementary school, middle school, high school, college, post college, early marriage, becoming a mom, few years in to marriage…different stages in life have had different BFFs. They each provided me with the type of friendship …
Journey to Exist 