As I look back on the friends that I have had in my life, I have always had different groups of friends. Elementary School: Sunday School friends. School friends. Middle School: Church friends. School friends. High School: Church friends. Neighborhood friends. Band friends. Popular friends. Awkward crowd friends. College: Band friends. Chapel friends. Home friends. …
Tag: bff
christmas
It didn't feel like Christmas this year. I spent the day with my bestie and her family. She gave me a beautiful card. I gave her a sex toy. Yup, this describes us...however you never know which one of us will be the one giving us. I didn't feel the pressure. I didn't feel like …
degredation
I love when my bff asks me questions. It allows me to focus in on a topic and really figure out what I want to say...and hopefully not get sidetracked while writing it! and because of her wonderfully curious mind...tonight's topic: Degredation. Tonight, she even gave me questions that she has with it. 1) how …
why
I've had some amazing conversations with my bff lately... all about how hubby and I are in an open marriage. What does that mean to us? How does it work? What feelings are involved? What happens if...? What boundaries do we have set up? What have we learned? I love my bff. She is amazing …
through my eyes
Do you have anyone in your life that you look at and you see who they really are? Not just the physical side, but you see them? There is something special about seeing a friend for who they really are. My BFF is going through some hard times lately...feeling angry, sad, guilty, and unworthy. But …
30 days
As of yesterday, I am 30 days sober. Did I have a problem with alcohol? Not really. I could go days without drinking. I wouldn't necessarily finish a drink when I had one. So...why did I stop? My bff decided that she needed to try and in my support of her, I jumped on board …
margaret
I met Margaret in the summer of 2006…shortly after hubby and I had officially started dating. She was married to his best friend. She was a new kind of friend to me. I don’t know how to explain it, but our friendship was different. We came from two completely different backgrounds – stable versus unstable …
new level
You know that you have hit a new level of friendship with someone when you order yourself a new sex toy and you order an extra one because you think your BFF will have an appreciation for it too. The first time I was in a sex toy shop, it was with 3 of my …
nothing wrong
I had had a couple of sessions with JoAnn when I truly realized that she was meant to be MY therapist. At the end of each of my sessions, she would give me homework: a challenge to think of something differently, a question to ponder, a journal entry to write, etc. At the end of …
walls
Over the past couple of months my BFF and I have been growing even more and more close. We talk daily and have shared more things with each other than I ever thought possible with a friend. As I said in my post all about her...she's amazing and I love her. Despite my love for …
Journey to Exist 